Take A Leap Of Faith when you least want to

When you are experiencing some of life’s biggest changes, the biggest fear, pressure, failure in business or in your personal life or maybe even both, or that every challenge is coming at you in full speed and you feel like you can’t take it anymore.
What are you suppose to do?
Are you going to vive up?
Or are you going to decide to learn from it?

Is it going to be hard? Yes

Are you going to cry? Yes

Are you going to be scared? Yes

Are you also going to be grateful for the opportunities, lessons and changes that are coming? Yes, absolutely. Either now, or later.

Are you going to understand that it won’t all just fall apart unless you let it, and that you can do and get through this?
Yes

Are you going to be grateful for the people that are still standing by your side, through your ups and down, through your success and failures, through your better and your worst, and will you remember them?
Yes

Is it going to result in something amazing in the end?
Yes. I am certain of it.
There is not a doubt in my mind.
Do not stop, do not give up.
Remember this:
Failure is the way to success, failure is a way of learning, failure is a way of becoming better IF you choose to.
You have to fail to succeed and you can only succeed by admitting and facing your failures and decide to be better.
But you are going to have to decide.

Because I screw up my own life over and over and over again, I know what I am talking about.
Why do i screw up?
Because I try. And I take risks. Also because I can be naive, selfish, forgetful, only see my own ways and forget what truly matters in life.
I try again, and again, and again.

I try, I fail, I learn and I grow.
And I will continue to grow.
I won’t stop until I am where I want to be in every area in life, and life won’t give me one or another without it being balanced in the way I asked of it to be.
This is the only way you can grow to become who you are suppose to be.
Take a leap of faith.
Believe in something bigger than yourself.
Just do a little bit better, and become a little bit better person than you were yesterday, every single day.
Don’t ever think you have fully learned something.
Because you haven’t.
And don’t ever forget to be humble and grateful.
Ever.

We have to completely face ourselves to truly become and do what we are suppose to.
There’s no way around it.
Doesn’t mean it comes easily, but if you want, you will get it.
Just be aware of this when you are standing in the middle of the storm –
Believe, keep fighting and you will make it.
You got this.

Xxx

 

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English
Guys! Are YOU on Instagram? Let me know your account in the comments or write to me on my Instagram!
It’s weekend, it’s spring, it’s a new moon weekend – Good things are here and good things will come ahead.
Be happy, stay happy, believe in yourself and do good.
Xxx

Norsk
Er DU på Instagram? Gi meg ditt Instagram navn i kommentarfeltet eller skriv til meg på min Instagram!
Det er helg, det er vår, det er nymåne helg – Fantastiske ting er her og fantastiske ting er på vei.
Vær glad, fortsett å være glad, stol på deg selv og gjør godt.
Xxx

 

The Power Lies Within You


The moment you think you’ve learned it all – You have failed.
You are able to learn more, grow more and become bigger and better.
I’ve failed a lot lately and I’m facing a part of me I don’t want in me, but it’s ok, that’s how we grow and that’s how we fix it.

Nobody is perfect, but I know for sure in my heart that we can all transform by deciding to.  I almost lost faith in it, due to my own failures.

For being able to actual decide om something, you have to decide it for YOU.
The power is always within you, and every word you say, every action you perform and every step you take is forming something in your life.
If you don’t truly, and I mean truly, 100% want it for you, it might just not happen.
This can all be a process that takes time, a lot of effort and a fall on the face about a million times.

I’ve fallen hard lately, and I used to blame it on somebody else, I used to cry about it, I used to whine about it, I used to find some reason for why it happened to me – Which was never the cause of myself and my own actions.
It is the cause of yourself and your actions, it is the cause of myself and my actions.

You create your life, and you create the outcome of it. You are the cause of your life right here and now.
Tough pill to swallow? Yes, absolutely.
Is it true? Yes, absolutely.
Can you therefore create the life you want?
Yes, absolutely.
The power lies within you!
Don’t give up.

Xxx

 

Giveaway Jeanette Walayat X Makestyle // Mast. Vol 2

English
Do YOU want to WIN the amazing Mast Vol. 2 curling iron from Makestyle? This has been one of my favorite curling irons for several years. The result is always perfect even if I’m not especially talented when it comes to hair.
It’s fast, easy and I adore the pretty colors on the curling iron. Not that it matters for the result but hey! We are still girls, right?
The absolute perfect curling iron for me, especially sine I’m always on the go and don’t have a lot of extra time doing my hair.

TO WIN
1. Follow @jeanettewalayat on Instagram
2. Follow @makestyle on Instagram
Please leave a comment with your Instagram name in this post, or on the Instagram post giveaway so we can get in touch with you if you win!
Best of luck!
Xxx


Norwegian

Vil DU vinne Mast Vol. 2 krøllstaven fra Makestyle? Denne krølltangen har vært og er min favoritt gjennom mange år. Resultatet blir alltid perfekt. Det går raskt, det er enkelt og ikke minst er den supersøt. Den perfekte krølltangen for meg som ikke ønsker eller kan bruke massevis av tid på håret mitt, spesielt ikke når jeg reiser.

FOR Å VINNE
1. Følg @jeanettewalayat på Instagram
2. Følg @makestyle på Instagram
Husk å kommenter med ditt Instagram navn i denne bloggartikkelen, eller i giveawayen på Instagram så vi kan komme i kontakt med deg om du vinner!
Lykke til!
Xxx

 

Are YOU a jealous person? WATCH THIS

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English
We’ve all been there, right? That horrible feeling that eats you up from the inside in a way you are not capable of explaining? Or maybe it’s just me?
Jealousy is perfectly normal, and just a tiny hint of jealousy can even be healthy but (!) you always know within yourself if it has gone too far.
Today I am sharing some of my best tips for getting rid of the jealousy once and for all!
I hope you guys can find some help and inspiration in this video, it’s just as much for me as for anybody else and that is exactly why I am able to speak so honest about it since it is something I am working on myself.
Stay strong, confident and be happy within yourself!
That’s when things fall into place.
Xxx

Norwegian
Vi har alle vært der, sant? Den forferdelige følelsen som spiser deg opp fra innsiden på en måte du ikke engang kan forklare? Eller er det bare meg?
Sjalusi er helt normalt, og litt sjalusi er til og med sunt (!) men du vet innerst inne om det har gått for langt eller ikke.
I dag deler jeg noen av mine beste, personlige tips for hvordan du kan bli kvitt den ekle sjalusi følelsen en gang for alle.
Jeg håper du kan finne noe inspirasjon og hjelp i denne videoen, den er laget like mye for meg selv som for noen andre og det er nettopp også derfor jeg kan snakke så åpent, ekte og ærlig om det – Fordi jeg selv jobber med dette.
Vær sterk, selvsikker og sørg for å gjøre deg selv lykkelig!
Da faller ting på plass skal du se.
Xxx

 

Touchdown Singapore


English
What a place, what a country!
Here we finally are at 1-Altitude in Singapore which has a pretty amazing view as you may see. I’m out of words and excited to be traveling once again. What more is there to say?
We will stay in Singapore for a few days, before heading to Australia.
Xxx

Norwegian
For et sted og for et land!
Endelig har vi kommet oss til 1-Altitude i Singapore som har en helt fantastisk utsikt. Jeg har ikke ord og er glad for å være på reise igjen. Hva mer kan jeg si?
Vi skal være i Singapore noen dager, før vi reiser avgårde til Australia.
Xxx

 

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English
First Paris for two nights, then Singapore for a couple of days and soon Australia! Wow! The days keep flying by lately and every morning when I wake up I have no idea where I am.
This makes me fall in love with my life over and over again. I wonder how it is that some of us just can’t stand being in one place too long at a time, while others can’t stand moving around so much.
If you want to follow more of my travels and check out my Instagram stories, don’t forget to follow me on Instagram.
I would love to check out yours as well!
Xxx

Norwegian
Først var det Paris et par netter, nå er det Singapore noen dager og straks flyr jeg avgårde til Australia! Dagene flyr avgårde den siste tiden, noe som sårt trengtes. Hver dag når jeg våkner har jeg ingen anelse om hvor i verden jeg er, og jeg elsker det.
Dette får meg til å bli forelsket i mitt eget liv på nytt og på nytt og på nytt. Iblant tenker jeg på hvordan noen av oss ikke takler å være på samme sted for lenge av gangen, mens andre ikke takler det motsatte.
Hvis du vil følge mer av reisene mine og se mine Instagram stories ikke glem å følg meg der også.
Legg gjerne igjen din egen Instagram!
Xxx

 

5 things to quit right now


1. Trying to please everyone
By trying to please everyone, you put yourself in a situation that is impossible. There is no way that you will ever please everyone, there is no way that every single person in this world is going to like you and who you are, never. If you can let these thoughts go and start focusing on yourself first, you have come a long way. It all starts with you. If you put this kind of pressure on yourself, you have set yourself up for failure, and you don’t want that, correct?
Who you should try to please the very first is yourself and your life. Next comes the people closest to you. Of course you want to see them happy and to help, just make sure you don’t forget yourself while doing so. This remains the same regarding work or anything you do in life. Remember – Balance, balance, balance.

2. Fearing change
Changes can be scary, and sometimes so scary you think you’ve made all the wrong decisions and you are about to give up. Stop. This is exactly where you don’t give up, you don’t fear the changes, you go with them and you open up to them. It’s so much easier to stay in a comfortable place, fearing changes and never take any risks, but remember that the greatest things in life comes from the biggest changes, and the biggest changes creates the biggest fears. Breathe, work on meditating, read books and try to calm yourself down when it all feels like it’s consuming you. You are stronger than you think and you can overcome any obstacle that comes your way.
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3. Living in the past
By living in the past you don’t allow yourself the future you desire so bad. Living in the past is easy, being angry at your past is easy, blaming the past is easy, blaming past failures is easy. The hard part is living in the moment and looking forward. The hard part is going against whatever your past tells you about yourself. Your past mistakes, people in your past, you childhood, your inner demons – Put them away for a second and learn to trust yourself. Every step in the right direction is a step in the right direction. Live your life. You are not in your past right now. You are here.

4. Putting yourself down
It’s easy to let our negative thoughts get the best of us, but you should always work as best as you can to not let them take control of you. You got this. Stop talking shit about yourself, it’s not going to help you move forward. Be kind to yourself, be your own best friend and on those days you just can’t stop putting yourself down – Stop anyway.

5. Overthinking
I am the biggest over thinker on the planet earth and I am 100% convinced about it. Every little thing in life I blow up to the biggest thing, every little obstacle is the biggest obstacle and every setback or failure is the end of life itself. I know that about myself and by knowing and being aware is when I am able to change it. This is something I am working on with myself every single day of my life, and that is also why I know so well how it feels and how challenging it is. I am not somebeody who tries to tell you to do something while I myself am “perfect”. No. I am just a human like you and I have the same struggles. I just want you to know this:

1. You can do this
2. You are strong
3. You are worthy
4. You can face anything that is coming and that is
5. You deserve it
Xxx